New Year's Resolutions

In just a couple of days many people will be making New Year's resolutions.  Usually the resolutions focus on making changes to improve one's life in some way.  By January 2 many people have already abandoned their resolutions and by the end of January most people have long forgotten what they "resolved to do" on January 1.  Why does this happen?  Is there a way to keep resolutions?  I'm interested in continually improving my life and helping others do the same.  That's why I so often talk about a healthy chiropractic lifestyle.

Too often resolutions are made because we think there are certain things we should do, like lose weight, exercise more, eat better, etc.  All these things may be good, but are they really something the person is ready to commit to?  Is it someone else's expectation?  Resolutions are a promise to ourselves and no one else.  They need to be something we can passionately commit to.  They should be something we are willing to do, whatever it takes to achieve.  Resolutions made casually are doomed to failure.

Resolutions should also be specific and limited.  If a person wants to eat better, they need to define some specific change they can make.  Perhaps it could be to eat no white foods on week days.  Maybe it will be to eat a low carbohydrate breakfast each day.  If the goal is to become physically fit the resolution could be to walk 30 minutes at lunch Monday, Wednesday and Friday.  A person will be more likely to succeed if they only make one resolution at a time and that the resolution is measurable.  In each of the examples I gave, the person will know whether they have kept their resolution or not.  The person should also set a date when they will re-evaluate their progress.  At the end of January did I succeed in avoiding white foods, or did I eat a good breakfast, or did I exercise during my lunch break.  If I did the one thing I set out to do, I have kept my resolution and will be better for it.

Making a resolution like "I want to loose 30 pounds" is usually not successful.  It is far better to make resolutions about the changes to be made, such as "I will eat only one helping at each meal".  Also make the resolution something you will do, not just something you want to do.  If your desire is to read better literature make your resolution that in January you will read a specific book or books.

Making resolutions should be an ongoing process, not just on New Year's Day.  Making improvements to our lives happens in small incremental steps.  Trying to make too many changes, or too great a change at once, dooms us to failure.  Make one small step at New Year's and another one a few weeks later and then another one.  By 2013 you will be a better person.

Something else to keep in mind is that resolutions are promises to yourself.  Do you trust yourself enough to make a commitment to make a small positive change in your life?